Confused?
Sometimes the indications given to you from outside aren't the best. You need to think for yourself. Don't get caught in movements you are not contributing to. Don't blindly follow and parrot, invent and innovate. Start your own movement! Change comes from within. Be responsible, for yourself, for your family, for the world. Life is not against you, it wants you to be in charge of it. Do good, be good, the universe will generally reward for it.
Most of the times I've done simple "good deeds", let's say doing something for someone I don't know well, I've gotten some positive feedback within days. I brought a radio to a co-worker I barely knew in the hospital. That night was a charming moment, spent with his nurse. Unrelated? I don't think so.
Pay it forward,
always,
in advance.
Now get outta here, I mean it.